As I was checking my messages the other day on Pof.com I had a note from this guy...who is married! He asked me if I would be interested in dating a guy who is married and has 2 kids.
Now my initial reaction was to delete it, but then I had a second thought. Don't guys care about what they said in their wedding vows? Doesn't lasting love mean anything? What happened to commitment? I couldn't resist the opportunity to get on the soap box -- yah know, me and all my infinite wisdom of being 22 and alone. I told him no, I wasn't interested in dating someone who is married, and if he really feels that way about his life then he should leave his wife. To my surprise he wrote back, saying that he was perfectly happy in his marriage -- except for the fact that he and his wife never have sex and she's sleeping with 2 other men. Too much information. End of discussion.
I feel like this stuff only happens in movies and I'm shocked to be finding out that yup, this is real life. I liked my little bubble of a relationship, thank you very much. And all this kind of makes me disappointed in humanity in general: where have all the good guys gone?
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